Hi there, I'm Amy! I moved to Haarlem from the U.S just about a year ago with my husband, Joe, and my son, also named Joe (it's easier that way- I just have to scream out "JOE!" and they both come running). Little Joe just turned five, so we're always on the lookout for fun things to do as a family. Between the Museumkaart and of the amazing natural beauty in this area, there never seems to be a shortage of really interesting things to do. Despite this, we were a little bit sad to say goodbye to some of our favourite American pastimes when we moved. Coming from Chicago, and having long family history as Cubs fans, we were particularly sad to say goodbye to baseball. Well, being the researcher that I am, I googled “baseball in the Netherlands” before we moved. I was surprised when something called “Honkbal” popped up as a result. I thought it might be some kind of goose competition? With a little more clicking around, I found that honkbal literally translates to baseball- and hooray!- it’s somewhat popular. Not like, Ajax Football popular, but still, it exists! We were even more pleased to find that Haarlem itself has a pretty active honkbal scene. It even hosts an international Honkbal Week , every other year at a stadium just blocks from our home. Pim Mulier Stadium isn’t quite Wrigley Field, but it’s comforting to still see stadium lights from our living room windows during baseball season. It took some time to get around to it, but the Joe’s finally went to their first honkbal game last weekend. They were accompanied by our very kind neighbour, who also happens to be an enthusiastic honkbal fan and coach. If you’re wondering, I stayed home enjoying some wine while cleaning out the shed (cause that qualifies as “fun” in your 30s). Believe it or not, there are actually a few different honkbal leagues and teams to choose from, even right here in Haarlem. I really have no clue as to the differences, and I won’t pretend I do. In this case, the Joe’s saw the Kinheim team play. They actually managed to stay the entire game, and even though Haarlem lost (Cubs fans aren’t known to bring good luck), fun was had by all. If you’re interested in going to a game yourself, particularly if you’re an American looking to fill the baseball void, check it out! Important things to know: · What/Where : Kinheim Honkbal, Pim Mulier Stadium Jaap Edenlaan 6, 2024 BW Haarlem · How much will it cost? Free entrance! Really, it’s €0 to see a game. · Is there food? Will my kid(s) eat it? Yes! There is an inexpensive cafe with snacks, ice cream, and beer. Also, unlike MLB parks, you can BYO everything. So really, it can be a €0 day out with the family. · What can kids do? Maybe your kid will watch the game? Joe watched a few innings. Then he ate ice cream, watched the NS train pass by, explored the entire stadium, played FREE foosball in the cafe, and even got to go out on the field and in the dugout after the game. · What can parents do? Watch the game! Drink beer! Enjoy spending €0! So there you have it! The first of my “Things to do with your kid” recommendations. If you do decide to go, let me know what you think! Actually, let me know before you go and I’ll go with you. It’s probably better than staying at home to clean out my shed. >>> Amy Lawrence is an expat mom and teacher originally from the U.S. She enjoys reading, gardening, and exploring everything the Netherlands has to offer. She also enjoys blogging about these things! Check her out at This Place is Nice.

I only learned to swim when I turned 30, but I won't let that happen to my son Daniel. Being born in the Netherlands, he should know how to swim as early as possible. Before it's time for Diploma ABC, we thought it would be useful that he gains some confidence in the water. As soon as we survived the first intense month of becoming new parents, we looked for a pool where we could take Daniel. He is now almost 1 and here are the places that we have visited in and around the centre of Haarlem: Boerhaavebad We used to go swimming at Boerhaavebad, up until the last month of my pregnancy. As we knew the facilities well, it seemed logical to take our newborn there for his first swim. There is an ankle-deep pool in which the little kids can sit up and play safely. However, the water is cold. As Daniel was just a couple of months old, we didn't think he would enjoy it. We took him to the big kid pool instead. He threw up some milk as soon as we got down the steps. After a quick retreat, some cleaning and many hugs, we attempted the water the second time. He cried a bit more, clung tightly onto his dad for half an hour before starting to relax. When it was time to leave, we started to see some of the shortcomings of the place. It is a long way from the pools to the shower and the changing rooms. With a stop at the locker, it would get even colder for the little ones. If your kids are older, say six and above, or more used to the water, they are more likely to enjoy the facilities at Boerhaavebad like slides, water fountains and jacuzzi. The cold water and the long way to the changing rooms might not be such a big deal then. With our newborn, however, we found it fun but rather tiresome. The entry fee is 5.50 euros and you need an extra 20 cent for the locker. When there are two of you using two lockers, it is 12,40 euros per visit. The pool is near the Spaarne Gasthuis in the south, with several buses stops five minutes away on foot. Good points: ● Open at weekends ● Fun stuff for bigger kids or kids with some confidence in the water ● Hot snacks available after swimming Zwemschool t’ Spaarne Huys The second place we tried is a swim school by Het Spaarne river. It is in a beautiful old building with big stones and a labyrinth of stairs and doors. There is only one small pool, which I find rather gezelig! The water is reasonably warm, and there are some toys for the little ones. Once you get out of the water, you can go straight into a shower area. However, there is only one shower head so you might have to queue. After the shower, you can go out into a small corridor, then back into the reception area. Here, there is a big changing table with a few toys. If there is only one parent with one child, it is probably the most convenient to dress the child on that table. As there are not often many parents, you can even get changed at the reception instead of going down one floor to the big changing room. You will notice that there are no separate areas for men and women. You can either go to Zwemschool t' Spaarne Huys for free parent-child swimming sessions or taking swim lessons with an instructor. There are quite a few time slots during the week. The school is, however, not open during the weekend. It is 8 euros per lesson, or you can pay 27,50 euros to go twice a week for the whole month. Free swimming mornings last for two hours, and you pay 4 euros. There is not much space right outside the school for leaving your bikes or inside for big strollers. However, it is next to a parking lot if you drive. Good points: ● Plenty of options for both free swimming and swim lessons ● The gezelig feeling of being back in time. ● Quiet to the point of having the whole pool for yourself Kenamju Sports Centre So far, Kenamju has been my favourite. The facilities are excellent: warm, chlorine-free water, clean, separate changing rooms adjacent to the pool. There's also a kids corner where your little ones can play with each other, and you can have a drink with other mamas and papas after a lesson. For children under four, you can opt for a private course or lessons with other kids and their parents. There are now weekly group sessions both in English and Dutch. The instructor sings a series of songs while parents do activities with their kids to help them gain confidence and feel at ease in the water. My little one has learned to jump into the pool from the edge and dive. He has also had a lot of fun. Each group lesson lasts for 30 minutes with an extra 15 minutes to play both before and after. We paid 5.50 euro for a single visit and 40 euros for a card of 8 lessons. They are going to increase the charges to 7.50 and 55 in the coming month, though. The sports centre is about 7 minutes walk from the train station. There is also plenty of room for parking your bike just outside the building. Good points: ● Warm, chlorine-free water and clean changing rooms ● Great facilities with a kids corner and a creche ● Interactive lessons in English or Dutch In conclusion, swimming with your newborn can be a lot of work but it is also enjoyable. Being in The Netherlands, it is also essential that your child is not scared of water and becomes a confident swimmer as soon as possible. Luckily, there are plenty of good pools and classes where your newborns and toddlers can begin their journey with water. >>> Quynh Nguyen is a full-time mother and part-time copywriter. She enjoys the Dutch way of cycling everywhere, prioritising work-life balance and having a "borrel". You can check out her works at https://quynh.nl/

If you’re thinking about a trip back home or just going on an adventure out of The Netherlands with your child who is under 18 – if you’re not with your partner – you must have their permission before you travel. If not, it may be considered to be removing the child from parental authority and engaging in international child abduction. This all sounds really serious but because of a few high profile cases, it is now recommended to carry the documentation below with you when you travel to prevent any unnecessary delays to your journey. When a child travels with only one parent In some situations, a child under 18 may travel with only one parent: · If you share parental responsibility and are travelling alone with your child. You must have the other parent's consent. · If you have sole parental responsibility. In this case you do not need permission, but you will need other documents. · If you are the child's parent but you do not have parental responsibility. You will need the consent of the parent who has parental responsibility. · If the other parent is no longer alive. Consent letter for minors travelling abroad Use the form below to prove that you have the permission of the person or persons with parental authority. Both parents have to sign the form. You must fill in a separate form for each child. www.government.nl/documents/forms/2016/06/17/consent-letter-for-minors-travelling-abroad If you need more info: kinderontvoering.org . >>> Information taken from: www.netherlandsworldwide.nl/travel/travelling-with-children